{"id":1326,"date":"2025-09-08T16:31:01","date_gmt":"2025-09-08T08:31:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/?p=1326"},"modified":"2025-09-08T16:31:01","modified_gmt":"2025-09-08T08:31:01","slug":"kos-perkahwinan-tinggi-realiti-atau-sekadar-persepsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/2025\/09\/08\/kos-perkahwinan-tinggi-realiti-atau-sekadar-persepsi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kos Perkahwinan Tinggi \u2013 Realiti Atau Sekadar Persepsi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bila sebut kahwin, ramai terus terbayang majlis gah, pelamin indah, baju pengantin mewah, hantaran ribuan ringgit, dan jemputan ratusan orang. Tekanan dari budaya dan pandangan masyarakat buat anak muda rasa kahwin itu sesuatu yang sangat membebankan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tapi mari kita renung sejenak. <strong>Adakah benar kahwin itu mahal, atau kita yang menjadikannya mahal?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hakikatnya, kahwin bukan tentang majlis sehari, tetapi tentang kehidupan selepas itu. Rumah tangga bukan dinilai pada bunga pelamin, tapi pada kesetiaan dan kerjasama dua jiwa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"1381\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/6e71b64e9684dbf3aa84a591b0f5cd41.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1381\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/6e71b64e9684dbf3aa84a591b0f5cd41.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/6e71b64e9684dbf3aa84a591b0f5cd41-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/6e71b64e9684dbf3aa84a591b0f5cd41-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/6e71b64e9684dbf3aa84a591b0f5cd41-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ramai pasangan bahagia kerana mereka memilih untuk memulakan hidup dengan sederhana. Mereka lebih pentingkan kestabilan selepas kahwin daripada mengejar kemewahan sehari. Sebaliknya, ada juga pasangan yang terlalu mengejar majlis besar, akhirnya terikat dengan hutang panjang, lalu kehidupan selepas kahwin jadi tegang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 Perkahwinan yang diberkati bukan diukur pada banyaknya duit dibelanjakan, tetapi pada kesepakatan dua hati yang rela hidup susah senang bersama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jika kita serius mahu mencari pasangan yang memahami nilai ini, tempat kita mencari itu penting.<br>\ud83d\udcf2 Di <strong>TillJannah.my<\/strong>, ramai calon hadir dengan fikiran matang \u2014 mahu membina rumah tangga yang realistik, bukan hidup dalam tekanan material.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"256\" data-id=\"1382\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-07-03-at-9.57.26-AM-1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1382\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-07-03-at-9.57.26-AM-1.jpeg 1000w, https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-07-03-at-9.57.26-AM-1-300x77.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-07-03-at-9.57.26-AM-1-768x197.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bila sebut kahwin, ramai terus terbayang majlis gah, pelamin indah, baju pengantin mewah, hantaran ribuan ringgit, dan jemputan ratusan orang. Tekanan dari budaya dan pandangan masyarakat buat anak muda rasa kahwin itu sesuatu yang sangat membebankan. Tapi mari kita renung sejenak. Adakah benar kahwin itu mahal, atau kita yang menjadikannya mahal? Hakikatnya, kahwin bukan tentang [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1380,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1326","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-artikel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1326","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1326"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1326\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1383,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1326\/revisions\/1383"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1380"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1326"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1326"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tilljannah.my\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1326"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}